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Brian Webster’s family shares a message about farmers and depression.

ELLSWORTH, Wis. — One-hundred 43 harvests have come and gone since the 1880 founding of the Webster farm.

But this one feels different to Mitchell Webster.

“I’m not used to driving the combine,” says the young man behind the wheel of the hulking machine.  

Standing at the edge of the cornfield, Mitchell’s sister Jennifer agrees. This fall’s harvest doesn’t feel right.

“That’s dad’s office, he’s supposed to be in there,” she says, looking off toward the combine.

Brian Webster would be in the combine cab, bringing in the corn crop he planted last spring, if not for the morning of Aug. 3.

Brian’s wife Kim found him that day at his semi-truck. 

At age 58, Brian had died by suicide.

“He was my love of my life,” Kim says through her tears. “I just wish he would have talked to me.”

The Webster’s story is all too familiar.


The National Rural Health Association says the suicide rate among farmers is 3.5 times the general population.  

Key reasons cited by the group ring true to Brian’s family.

“You’re at the mercy of all these different obstacles,” Jennifer says. “And a lot of it you don’t have control over.”

Unpredictable weather and financial pressures bear down hard on farmers, who are often reluctant to seek mental health care. 

“There’s still a pretty big stigma around mental health and keeping your feelings to yourself.” Jennifer says. “It’s a very, unfortunately, still a common thing in agriculture.”

Brian’s family decided to address the stigma head on in his obituary, writing in the first line that Brian had died from “complications with depression.”  

Few of Brian’s neighbors knew he had struggled with the mental illness that had run in his family.

The condition was passed on again to Brian’s youngest son, Thomas.


“People judge me, I guess, whatever, it’s a real thing,” Thomas says as he stops to take a breath while milking the family’s 75 cows. “It’s an illness, but I’m not scared to let people know I have it.” 

Once a month, between milkings, he drives from Ellsworth, Wisconsin to Red Wing, Minnesota to see a therapist.

“Talking to people about it makes me feel better, I mean, that’s what seems to help me,” he says.

Brian had also sought medical help. His doctor had switched him to a new anti-depressant shortly before he died.

“It’s really hard to know what was the tipping point exactly, if there was one thing, if there was multiple things,” Jennifer says. “It’s hard for me to make sense that he’s not here.”


Brian’s family buried him next to his parents within sight of his farm.   

Then, a few weeks later, they emailed KARE 11 asked for help sharing their story. 

The Websters had some things they wanted to say.

“I want farmers to know,” Brian’s wife says, before broadening her message. “Not just farmers, just anybody.”

Kim, a commodities trader, has taken a lead role in the family’s outreach efforts.

“It’s okay to talk about it, it’s okay to get help, it’s okay to be on medication, it’s okay to not be okay,” she says. 

The Websters have set aside memorial money from Brian’s funeral to help bring the Farmer Angel Network to western Wisconsin. The organization, launched in southern Wisconsin, is made up primarily of farmers helping other farmers who are dealing with depression. 


The family has established a GoFundMe page to raise additional funds for the project.  

The Websters know, though private, the former combine driver had another attribute.

“Dad always wanted to help people,” Mitchell says. “If he could help somebody, he would.”


Helping now seems like the one thing that could bring some healing to this hurtful harvest. 

“Please go get help,” Jennifer says. “There’s really no shame in getting help.”

If you or someone you know is facing a mental health crisis, there is help available from the following resources:


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Woman, 4 children deported for missing immigration hearing in Houston

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Federico Arellano Jr. said his children were crying as they were arrested and placed on a flight to McAllen and then escorted to Reynosa, Mexico.

HOUSTON — A Houston man is fighting back after they said Immigration and Customs Enforcement Agency agents unexpectedly deported his wife and four children last week.

It happened on Wednesday, Dec. 11, according to attorneys. Federico Arellano Jr. was there when ICE took his wife and children.

Christina Salazar, 23, as well as her four children — including twins born in September — were arrested, put on a plane to McAllen and then escorted to Reynosa, Mexico.

“They were treated as if they were high-risk criminals,” a family attorney said in a news release.

According to Arellano Jr., his wife and two older children missed a hearing with a Houston immigration judge on Oct. 9, about a month after she had an emergency cesarean section to deliver her twins. She was told by doctors to recover at home.

The family said they called the immigration court to let them know what was going on and claimed to have been told over the phone that the hearing would be rescheduled. They said they got a call back to show up at a location in the Greenspoint area to talk about their case, but when they showed up, the mother and kids were arrested.

“The issue of Cristina missing her court hearing was a technical violation that could have been resolved,” a family attorney said.

Arellano Jr., a United States citizen, was there and tried to explain what happened, attorneys said. He said he was threatened by ICE agents if he interfered. He said his children were crying as they and Salazar were taken into custody.

“They were shocked and surprised that they were separated,” immigration lawyer Isaias Torres said.

Torres and Silvia Mintz are representing the family. They said that Salazar was born in Mexico and married Arellano Jr. in 2019.

“The reason she was arrested, they were told, is that she failed to go to an immigration hearing,” Torres said.

The family’s attorneys said it was cold the night Salazar and the children were taken to Mexico and they were not allowed to get coats. They also said the woman and her children had no money and no contacts in Reynosa.

Arellano Jr. said he wants his family back so they can go through the immigration process legally.

His attorneys said some circumstances were out of their control that led to them being deported. One of those factors was that the family didn’t have legal representation at the time of the impromptu meeting at which they were arrested.

“This case shouldn’t have gone to this extreme. There were options, legal options, that were available and he was not given those opportunities,” Torres said. “They thought that they were complying and doing as they were told. And it turns out that they were not.”

The family and their attorneys plan to file a complaint with the Office of Inspector General as well as petitions with immigration. But, since they’re out of the country, it could take several months.

ICE confirmed that Salazar did not report to a scheduled immigration hearing and was ordered to be removed by an immigration judge with the Justice Department’s Executive Office for Immigration Review.

KHOU 11 reached out to the Justice Department’s EOIR which makes decisions based on individual cases and determines if a noncitizen is subject to removal or eligible for relief from removal. We have not received a response.



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Heated insoles explode inside Minnesota man’s boots, melting his skin off

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Tyler Morris of Trimont, Minnesota said he purchased the insoles on Amazon last year to use while hunting and fishing.

TRIMONT, Minn. — “Don’t do it.”

That’s the message Mikaela Morris of Trimont, Minn. has for anyone interested in purchasing rechargeable heated apparel products to keep warm this winter. In a Facebook post, she shared photos of her husband Tyler’s charred foot and melted-off skin after his rechargeable insoles, which were not turned on at the time, exploded inside his boots.

Tyler said he purchased the insoles on Amazon last year to use while hunting and fishing. The insoles, sold by the company iHEAT based in China, are no longer available on Amazon. KARE contacted Amazon and iHEAT for comment but has not heard back.

Tyler said when he took the insoles out again this fall for deer hunting season, they weren’t working very well but he kept them in his boots for added comfort. 

I guess I should have taken them out because I was not using them; they were not on,” Tyler said. “They were just in my boots, and all of a sudden the one exploded.”

On Thursday, Dec. 12, Tyler said he was preparing to put a fish house on the lake when he felt a sharp pain in his right foot.

“It just felt like a knife stabbed me in my heel,” he recalled. “Then it started getting super, super hot, and I started freaking out, and there was white smoke just billowing out of my boot.”

Tyler said he managed to kick his boot off within five seconds, but half of his sock was already burning. 

“The insole came out in pieces,” he said, adding that he’s thankful he was wearing wool socks and shoes without laces, which likely saved him an even worse injury than the second and third-degree burns he sustained on his right foot.

“This happens apparently all the time,” Tyler said. “In fact, when we got to Hennepin County, the doctor there told us that I was the third person she had seen for this this week.”

Tyler lost feeling in some parts of his foot and was told by doctors he might need skin grafts. He and Mikaela are warning others to do extensive research before buying any rechargeable apparel products, especially those manufactured overseas and not locally, or to avoid buying similar products altogether.

“I would say on any of it,” Mikaela said. “Heated insoles, socks, vests, coats, gloves because not only could it have been his foot, it could have been his hand, it could have been his, if he had socks on, it could have been his whole leg.”



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West St. Paul Police remembers Larry Raasch, a volunteer for 25 years

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Larry Raasch volunteered at the department for 25 years.

WEST ST PAUL, Minn. — The West St. Paul Police Department has lost one of its most decorated servants.

Larry Raasch volunteered as a reserve officer for 25 years, logging more than 4,000 hours.

“He really cared about this department and this community,” said West St. Paul Police Chief Brian Sturgeon.

Raasch volunteered at least eight hours a week at the West St. Paul Police station. Before he started helping out there, he was a reserve for the St. Paul Police Department. In total, he’s spent more than 50 years volunteering at police departments.

“He loved this community that’s what it was, he loved the community, he loved the department, he loved the city, he loved his neighbors, he loved the business owners in town, and he just wanted to give back. That’s why he was doing what’s he doing,” Sturgeon said.

Raasch’s daughter Lisa McDermott said her father lived to serve the community. He would drive people around town if they needed a ride and would help anyone who needed it. His life has been dedicated to service. She said her father is a Vietnam Veteran. He was stationed in Munich, Germany as a medic.

Captain of the reserves Mike Whebbe said he was dedicated to serving his community. He’s worked alongside Raasch for decades.

Raasch was one of the police department’s 15 reserves. Sturgeon said they assist sworn officers and departments, attend community events, help with prisoner transport, and traffic control. Sturgeon said the reserves help the department immensely and have save them a lot of money.

“Over the course of the 25 years, it’s close to $1 million,” he said.

Sturgeon said two years, he received the President’s Volunteer Service Lifetime Achievement award.

“He dedicated over 4,000 hours. I’m sure it was a lot more than that,” Sturgeon said.

He said Raasch was one of the oldest reserves, his “meticulous” nature earned him a spot helping out in the property room as a volunteer evidence tech.

“His age didn’t keep him down though. He was always available to us whenever we needed it. We were very appreciative of his dedication to this community,” he said. “He just wanted to be a part of this organization. He wanted to be a part of this city and being a reserve was one way he could be a part of this organization and this community.”

Sturgeon said he’ll miss hearing Raasch say “hi, good morning, good afternoon, how are you doing,” when he would walk into the department. He said no one will ever be able to fill his shoes.

“Larry was a character, he was a one-of-a-kind,” Sturgeon said. “We’ve all learned a lot from him, especially the reserves. I mean like I said he coached and mentored the younger reserves.”

He said it’s going to be hard without him. Sturgeon said Raasch was the embodiment of an outstanding community member, who made West St. Paul a safer and brighter place.

“He’s one of a kind that’s for sure and he’s going to be greatly missed,” Sturgeon said.



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