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The Bishop family of Festus, Missouri, can smile now, but a few months ago the mood was much more somber as Courtney, Jake and their 3-year-old daughter Hazel said goodbye to a very important member of the family: Hazel’s beloved pacifier.

“It’s not good for her teeth and her jaws and all of that, so we had been trying to wean her off of it for some time,” Jake, 35, said.

Hazel’s beloved pacifier, affectionately known as “Paci,” had been with her for years. Jake knew saying goodbye could come with tears and tantrums, so he searched for creative approaches to ease the transition. He considered options such as cutting off the end of the pacifier, soaking it in vinegar or planting it in a pot.

Instead, Jake chose to give Paci a funeral.

Of course, before the internet, parents used to just take the thing away and deal with the tantrum. But today, for better or worse, young parents like Jake would rather not go to war over a binky. They’re “pacy-fists,” if you will.

“You need them to go through some tough times to really grow as a person but you don’t need to make extra tough times for them,” Jake said. “They’ll have plenty of those coming up.” 

Parents delight in making milestones, but those milestones are often bittersweet because each turning point is a point of no return.

“She’s transitioning to the next stage of her life,” Jake said of Hazel, their first child. “We just got to hold onto those moments and those memories, because it goes fast.”

Hazel hasn’t asked for Paci again since. Although, shortly after the ceremony, Jake dug it up and buried it again in a keepsake box, making dad the one who just can’t let go. 



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Former NFL player Steve Gleason gets candid about ALS journey: “This body may be a prison but my mind is free”

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Steve Gleason helped lift the spirit of New Orleans with his iconic punt block during the Saints’ first home game after Hurricane Katrina in 2006 – two years before he retired from the NFL.

In 2011, the former New Orleans Saints safety was diagnosed with ALS. He believes that block, which he has called one of his proudest moments, saved his life.

“In 2006, when I blocked that punt on Monday night football, it was undoubtedly a phenomenon that was much more important than winning a football game,” Gleason said in an interview that aired Monday on “CBS Mornings.”

Creating “Team Gleason”

Shortly after his diagnosis, Gleason and his wife Michel made it their mission to help empower others with ALS and raise awareness for the disease, creating the Team Gleason Foundation. The foundation has provided over $40 million in technology, equipment and care services to people with ALS.

“So many people have told us that our foundation’s efforts and support have saved their lives. But if I didn’t block that punt, I’m just another has-been football player. It’s probably that I’d just fade away and die anonymously. I don’t see any of this happening,” Gleason said.

In a recent text conversation with his friend Brian Jeansonne, a former pastor from New Orleans who was diagnosed with ALS in 2020, Gleason was asked if he believes he’d have the same range and impact on ALS without that legendary 2006 block.

“My answer was, ‘If I don’t block the punt, I’m probably not alive,” Gleason said.

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A statue titled “Rebirth,” of Steve Gleason’s punt block.

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He added, “But here we are. I did block the punt…and this community, my family and friends and their love continue to uplift me throughout this crazy wonderful journey with ALS.”

Because of his heart and strength, Gleason was honored with the Arthur Ashe Award for Courage at the 2024 ESPYS.

“Steve Gleason has always been determined to write his own story and live to be 109. Through it all, he has never given in, never stopped fighting, No white flags. And never stopped finding ways to inspire, impact, and write his own story,” former Saints quarterback Drew Brees said at the 2024 ESPYs when introducing Gleason.

Living with ALS

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Steve Gleason and his wife, Michel, share their personal journey with ALS.

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When Gleason was diagnosed with ALS, he admits he had to tackle a wide range of emotions – going from frustrated to fearful, to angry. Gleason and Michel shared candid details about their journey with ALS in a new memoir, “A Life Impossible: Living with ALS: Finding Peace and Wisdom Within a Fragile Existence,” co-written with Jeff Duncan.

“The readers will see that 13 years of living with this gnarly disease and I’m over a decade past my expiration date, so I have the wilderness of fear tattooed all over me,” Gleason said.

Through the process of losing muscle control, Gleason said he held on to the one thing he has control over: his mindset.

“This body may be a prison but my mind is free,” Gleason said.

Michel admits she’s still tackling feelings of anger and frustration.

“I have not transcended it all like Steve has. But also [I’m] able to move and talk and feel. I’m proud of him for where he is because I really can’t imagine…having to do what he does every day,” she said.

Gleason uses a special computer equipped with eye-tracking software to communicate daily. But the technology isn’t always perfect.

“His technology doesn’t always work. His eyes get tired and some days I just want to be like I just wish today we could have like a regular conversation to figure out the next week,” Michel said.

Sometimes, Michel said, it’s hard for Gleason to communicate with his 5-year-old daughter Gray and 12-year-old son Rivers.

“It’s painful to watch, because I know how much he wants to be communicating with them,” she said.

“We all have a timeline”

Gleason believes “we all have a timeline,” and he finds that concept “absolutely beautiful.”

His advice to others: live like today is the last day you’ll be able to move, talk and breathe on your own.

If you start to shift your mindset, Gleason said, your perspective will change.

“Will you be more appreciative and less concerned about achievement or material success knowing this is your last day of moving?” he asked. “When you hug your child or run your hand through their hair, knowing this is the last time, how much will you appreciate the preciousness of that moment?”

“Mic drop,” agreed Michel before giving him a “forehead to forehead” hug.

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Michel gives her husband, Steve Gleason, a hug.

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Watch David Begnaud’s full interview with Steve Gleason here.


David Begnaud loves uncovering the heart of every story and will continue to do so, highlighting everyday heroes and proving that there is good news in the news with his exclusive “CBS Mornings” series “Beg-Knows America.” Every Monday, get ready for moments that will make you smile or even shed a tear. Do you have a story about an ordinary person doing something extraordinary for someone else? Email David and his team at DearDavid@cbsnews.com



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58-year-old Ryan Routh has been identified as the suspect in Sunday’s apparent assassination attempt against former President Donald Trump. CBS News’ Cristian Benavides and Anna Schecter have the latest on what we know about the suspect and the investigation.

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Vice President Kamala Harris is in Washington Monday for a roundtable with labor leaders at the Teamsters headquarters. The Teamsters Union still hasn’t endorsed a candidate for the 2024 presidential election. CBS News campaign reporter Aaron Navarro has more.

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