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7 revealing moments from Oprah Winfrey’s interview with Elvis Presley’s granddaughter Riley Keough
Elvis Presley’s first-born granddaughter, Riley Keough, shared an intimate look at life inside Graceland in Memphis, where her late mother, Lisa Marie Presley, spent part of her childhood.
Keough, the sole heir of the famous estate, learned some new details about her family while parsing through hours of audio recordings her mother — the only daughter of Elvis and Priscilla Presley — made while working on her memoir, “From Here to the Great Unknown.” Keough fulfilled her mother’s wishes and finished co-writing the book after her death at age 54 in January 2023. The memoir was just named Winfrey’s 108th book club pick.
In an exclusive special with Oprah Winfrey that aired Tuesday night, Keough shared her mother’s last recorded words, discussed the impact of Elvis on her family and more.
“I think that in the book she absolutely reveals a part of herself,” Keough told Winfrey during “An Oprah Special: The Presleys — Elvis, Lisa Marie and Riley,” produced by Harpo Productions.
Here are some highlights from the hour-long special.
Keough says hearing mom’s last words was “very intense”
Months before she died, Lisa Marie asked Keough to help her finish her memoir.
“She was incredibly insecure and I think there were moments where she kind of was going, ‘Why am I even writing a book about myself?’ She didn’t like talking about herself particularly,” Keough told Winfrey.
While she struggled to share private details about her life, Keough said her mom felt compelled to tell her story in hopes of connecting with people and sending a message in a “hopeful kind of way,” especially after her son Benjamin Keough’s death by suicide in 2020.
In the recordings, Lisa Marie described Graceland as a vortex with no rules, and said she was “mostly up to mischief” and a “true wild child.”
As an adult, Lisa Marie would often return to the property to feel her father’s presence.
“Trying to grieve my father; it’s still there if I go there. I don’t necessarily cry, but I still feel all of the energy that’s there. It’s just still there,” Lisa Marie is heard saying in an audio recording.
In a way, Keough said it was a “beautiful blessing” to hear some of her mother’s last words on tape, but she also described listening to them as “very intense.”
“It was just such a strange experience because, after 30 minutes of it, it feels very much like she’s there,” Keough said.
Keough said her mom was a “self-proclaimed daddy’s girl.”
“I feel so honored that I got to spend any time with him at all,” Lisa Marie said in a recording. Elvis died at 42 years old in 1977, when Lisa Marie was just 9 years old.
Lisa Marie’s last exchange with Elvis before his death
Keough showed Winfrey the last place Lisa Marie and Elvis spoke to each other: the back entrance leading to the patio of Graceland. He was heading in from racquetball and she was heading out to ride her golf cart.
The morning of Elvis’ death, on August 16, 1977, Keough said her mom woke up and instinctively knew something was wrong.
Keough said the memoir is the first time Lisa Marie has ever talked in detail about that day.
“And she said good night to him and I think she knew saying good night, like she had some kind of a sense. I think she had a sense many times that he wasn’t okay, you know?” Keough explained. “She would tell me that, you know, sometimes she would find him in his bathroom looking kind of out of it or holding onto the railing to, you know, stand up straight. And she also wrote these letters when she was little that we have, kind of saying, I hope my daddy doesn’t die. So there was some kind of sense there.”
Lisa Marie describes watching thousands of mourning fans file into the house to pay tribute to her father, dubbed the “King of Rock and Roll.”
In her memoir, she described being “so busy looking at everyone else’s grief” that she struggled with her own. After everyone was gone at night, Lisa Marie would go downstairs to view her dad’s body.
“I went down to where he was lying in the casket, just to be with him, to touch his face and hold his hand, to talk to him. I asked him, ‘Why is this happening? Why are you doing this?'” Lisa Marie wrote in her memoir.
Inside Lisa Marie and Michael Jackson’s relationship
After divorcing Danny Keough, the father of Riley and Ben Keough, Lisa Marie made waves when she announced she and Michael Jackson tied the knot in 1994. The marriage lasted two years. At the time, Keough recalls nicknaming Jackson “Mimi.”
“I remember how much she loved [Michael Jackson]. She really was, like, obsessed with him,” Keough said.
Lisa Marie spoke about her adoration for Jackson in the audio recordings, saying that he always made sure to pay attention to others and ensure they felt heard.
“He’d be really, really interested and fascinated by everything you had to say about what you did. So he would lift people up. I watched him do it all the time. It was amazing. Ya know, he did it with me,” Lisa Marie said of Jackson.
Keough described the couple as having a “very seemingly happy, loving relationship.” The pair often stayed at Lisa Marie’s house instead of Jackson’s Neverland to create a sense of normalcy for the family – getting ready and taking the kids to school together.
Lisa Marie later briefly married Nicholas Cage in 2002. Then she married Michael Lockwood from 2006 through 2021. They have twin girls, Harper and Finley, who just turned 16.
Keough describes “unbearably dark” time for family
Keough said her mom was a rebellious teenager, but she didn’t believe she had a “proverbial drug problem.”
It wasn’t until she was around 40 years old when she delivered her twin girls in 2008 via a C-section that she had her first taste of opioids. At one point, she was taking dozens of pills a day, according to the book.
“She would pull me aside and said, ‘I’m — I’ve been taking opiates. And at first, I was taking them for pain. Then I was taking them to sleep at night. Now it’s like I’m taking them for fun,” Keough recalled.
Eventually, she went to rehab but later returned to the pills.
The drug abuse spiraled into chaos and Keough said her mom and the twins had to move in with her in Nashville. Her dad, Danny Keough, also moved in to help.
In the book, Keough wrote, “It seemed like it could have been good to have everyone together. But it felt like the end of things. We’d had this amazing, colorful, beautiful, abundant, fun, joyful life – but in that house, it took a turn and got unbearably dark for all of us.”
At that time, Keough realized that rehab may not work and that Lisa Marie’s issues were likely deeper than some accidental drug problem. Keough often would find her mom tearing up as she listened to Elvis’ songs while alone and drunk.
Lisa Marie says son was “so much like [Elvis] it scared me”
Winfrey recalled Lisa Marie telling her she didn’t know if she’d make it after her son’s suicide in 2020. Throughout his life, he struggled with drugs and alcohol.
“I knew this was the end of her. You know?” Keough admitted. “I just couldn’t imagine a world where she would make it without him.”
In her memoir, Lisa Marie wrote about her close relationship with her son.
“Ben was very similar to his grandfather, very, very, very, and in every way. He even looked like him. Ben was so much like him, it scared me. I didn’t want to tell him because I thought it was too much to put on a kid. We were very close. He’d tell me everything. Ben and I had the same relationship that my father and his mother had. It was a generational f-–ing cycle. Gladys loved my dad so much that she drank herself to death worrying about him. Ben didn’t stand a f-–ing chance,” wrote Lisa Marie.
After Ben’s death, Lisa Marie and Keough went through his phone, where they discovered a message from him expressing that he felt he had a mental health issue. That surprised Keough. She knew that he liked to party and “go on these benders,” but she didn’t peg him as depressed.
Winfrey said “one of the most shocking things” shared in the book was how Lisa Marie grieved Ben by bringing his coffin into the home for about two months.
Keough said her mom found a very compassionate funeral homeowner who explained how she could keep the casket with her until she was ready for the burial. She had dry ice brought in regularly as part of that preservation process. And she would often just sit with his body.
Lisa Marie was buried next to Ben in the meditation garden at Graceland, where Elvis was also laid to rest.
Keough said she was concerned about Lisa Marie weeks before her death.
“I think there was always sort of an undertone for me because of this feeling that I felt that I was on borrowed time with her,” Keough said.
Mother-son matching tattoos
Before she said her final goodbye and buried Ben, Lisa Marie wanted to fulfill a final wish: to get a matching tattoo with her son.
“I think that the story could — on paper, I can see how this sounds completely insane and absurd. But I — my mom was just very much herself. And I — I don’t know if you knew her. There’s nothing — you know, she wasn’t a crazy lady,” Keough stated before starting the story.
Lisa Marie brought in a tattoo artist to write Ben’s name on her hand. To get the placement exactly right, she brought the artist into the room and opened Ben’s coffin to show him his hand.
“[The tattoo artist], God bless him, was very normal about the whole thing,” Keough said, calling it “definitely one of the most, like, absurd moments.”
She recalls her mom opening up the casket and the tattoo artist studying the placement and going back and redoing it for her.
“When he left I was, like, ‘Do you know how f—ing crazy that was, what you just did?” Keough asked her mom, joking with Winfrey that the tattoo artist would probably write a book about it at some point.
Graceland’s future and a powerful lesson learned
Keough, an actress who starred in “Daisy Jones and the Six,” says she plans to continue running the beloved Graceland property – which more than 2,000 people tour daily.
“I think, like, my instinct with everything is always to do what my mother would have wanted. Which is to keep it a home. It was our family’s home,” Keough said.
Keough said she had plenty of tough times with her mom – but the love was always there. And that’s something she hopes to pass along to her 2-year-old daughter, Tupelo.
“I think that if I can just make [Tupelo] feel loved the way my mom made us feel loved. It was unconditional. Truly,” she said.
Keough added, “She did things — we had fights. She did things that I, you know, did not approve of. We’d have awful interactions, as you do with someone on drugs. But … the love was always there, you know?”
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With Election Day around the corner, political divides grow deeper and relationships with certain friends and family members may feel increasingly strained. It leaves some wondering whether to sever ties over fundamental differences in political views.
While it’s been debated for a few elections cycles, experts say the question weighs even more heavily this year.
Dr. Judy Ho, a clinical and forensic neuropsychologist and author of “The New Rules of Attachment,” has seen this dilemma ramp up recently in both her personal and professional life.
“If you encounter enough people, there’s going to be somebody who’s not the same as your views, and some people just get so much more fired up about it, and then it becomes extremely personal really quickly,” she told CBS News.
The issue has even made celeb-studded headlines, with social media users dissecting the friendship between Taylor Swift, who made waves by endorsing Kamala Harris, and Brittany Mahomes, who Donald Trump praised last month for “defending” him.
Can you remain friends with people who hold political views antithetical to your own? Experts say there are a few things to consider when it comes to navigating political divides among loved ones.
Why political differences cause problems
“Political divides are really problematic for relationships because they’re often deeply intertwined with people’s identities and core values,” Ho said. “When the beliefs are challenged, then it feels like a much more personal attack, and it triggers a defensive reaction.”
She said some research shows that when people encounter statements that contradict their deeply held beliefs, their brains react similarly to facing a physical threat.
“It puts them into a fight or flight stance, and that makes conversation impossible, because when you’re in fight or flight, you’re not going to have any kind of productive conversation,” she said.
That’s why we tend to see disagreements that lead to unfriending someone occur more often around social views, and less around something like economic policy, said Dr. Laura Vogel, psychologist and director of mental health services at Momentous Institute.
“Particularly around those social views, that’s where it begins to connect to my identity as a person, who I am, what my faith is, those sorts of things,” she said.
How to decide if your friendship has a future
So, how do you know when it’s time to take a step back — or completely away — from a friend or family member over these disagreements?
First, assess the relationship, experts advise.
Think about how much value this person adds to your life, Ho suggests, and also consider the logistics of whether if you’re going to see this person all the time at work or if they’re part of your family.
“Is it going to be really that feasible to just completely cut them off?” Ho said. “If a person is of value to you in some way, is important to you, then it’s important to try to work through the conflict instead of just completely shutting it out or completely never speaking to them about anything related to their beliefs.”
Vogel also suggests slowing down and thinking, “If I unfriend them, what impact will this have on me?”
“When we are flooded with emotion, whether that’s shock or anger or shame, none of us make really good, thoughtful decisions,” she said. “Let that emotion settle and really reflect … and then make a decision. And I can’t tell anybody what that is, everyone’s going to have a different range of what is best for you.”
If you want to move forward with this person in your life, the next step may include having a conversation with them to better understand their views or to set certain boundaries.
“If this is an important relationship, that’s where we want to really slow down and resist that temptation to make a snap decision, an impulsive decision, and then consider whether a conversation is important and necessary — a live conversation, not a Facebook conversation,” Vogel said.
Your decision doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing, “remain close friends” or “completely cut them off,” experts say. Instead, you may decide to mentally or privately take a step back from someone but remain on amicable terms.
“If it’s a person who you share friends with, you can still see each other at parties and big get-togethers, but do you need to be calling them? No, you don’t,” Ho said. “It doesn’t have to be this huge black-and-white approach, because I don’t think that that’s always feasible.”
Social media versus real life
The threshold for “unfriending” someone in real life compared to on social media is typically different, too.
“If you’re feeling a lot of stress and anxiety every time you get on social media, and it’s a handful of people that are creating that and you don’t really have a relationship with them, I think it’s good for us to have boundaries,” Vogel said.
Ho added that “muting” is a great option if you don’t want to see someone’s posts without outright “unfriending” or “unfollowing” them, which they may see.
“I definitely think the bar is lower for online consumption, because we know that just passive consumption of things can really affect your mindset,” Ho said.
On the other hand, real-life friends who you have more meaningful relationships with may be well worth the extra effort it takes to navigate differences.
“Our good friends can challenge us,” Vogel said. “There’s that argument of, ‘You’re in this echo chamber and you’re not talking to people who have different perspectives than you.’ I think good friends who care about us can come to the conversations with curiosity and be able to listen to your perspective, and then you’re curious about how they’ve come to their perspective. But that’s a much more civil conversation, typically, with a good friend where you value each other versus somebody that you really don’t interact with anymore.”
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